Itching, redness in the penile and thigh, the first and foremost that comes into my mind is that it could be fungal infection. So if it is fungal infection you need to seriously treat it. Antifungal tablets, medications, soaps and creams are needed. Hygiene is very important. Keep the area dry as much as possible. But sometimes the redness can be because of the dry skin itself. If it is due to dry skin then probably we will have to tell them to use moisturising soaps. Redness can also come with excess sweating. If it is so we need to keep the area dry. Basically we need to see the lesion. You cannot treat it by taking an online consultation or asking for the red patches. There are different diagnosis for it. There is something called as the eczema, scrotal dermatitis. So it could be because of that also. That could be because of some neurological condition or a psychological condition. Best is to get it examined and see what is the reason behind the redness and itching and then treat accordingly.
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